For Immediate Release
March 8, 2005
Remarks by the First Lady at a Helping America's Youth Event
Subject: REMARKS BY THE FIRST LADY AT A HELPING AMERICA'S YOUTH EVENT
THE WHITE HOUSE
Office of the First Lady
Immediate Release March 8, 2005
REMARKS BY THE FIRST LADY AT A HELPING AMERICA'S YOUTH EVENT
Rosalie Manor Community and Family Services Milwaukee, Wisconsin
1:15 P.M. CST
MRS. BUSH: Thank you all very much. Thank you, Damion. Thank you
all. Damion, you're very, very articulate. You're a great spokesman
for Rosalie Manor and I thank you very much for sharing your story with
us. It's very important that the people of America hear the stories
about the struggles that young men in America face, and also to hear
about the courage they are showing to overcome their problems.
Damion and all the young men today in the Today's Dad program, the
one I just visited, are making responsible decisions to stay involved
in the lives of their children, and their children will benefit greatly
from having a relationship with a loving and responsible father.
I have to just say that the person who inspired my whole interest
in this issue happens to be here today. He's from Milwaukee. He was
the subject of a story in the New York Times Magazine that was
published last fall, a year ago, or last September, I guess, or so.
And I read it and I was struck by it and thought at the time how we
neglect boys in the United States, how we have turned our vision away
from everyone except for boys. We let little boys grow up without the
nurturing that we give girls and that we know intuitively little boys
need. And then, when they are grown, when they're young men, they
don't have that foundation from having the nurturing that they need
from other men, from their fathers or their grandfathers or their
uncles or from someone like Alphonso who can step in and help them in
such a profound way.
And Ken, who is here today -- and I was really glad to have a
chance to meet him and meet his little boy, because he'd made the
choice to take care of his little son and to be a father to his child.
And that -- the whole article about him is what made me start thinking
about what we could do in our country to make sure all children, girls
and boys, are nurtured and get the kind of nurturing that all of us
know children need so they can build successful lives.
I'm very happy that Secretary Mike Leavitt is with me today. As he
told you, the fathers program here is -- runs on a grant from Health
and Human Services. So I'm glad he could come and be with me. And I
also want to thank the mayor for being here with me. Thank you very
much, Mayor Tom Barrett, for joining us.
And thanks so much to Al Castro and Lindsey Draper. Thank you all,
and all the people here at Rosalie Manor for hosting this today.
I'm visiting Milwaukee to talk about this new initiative called
Helping America's Youth. The President asked me to lead this effort,
and I eagerly accepted. For years, I've worked with children; in
schools -- I was a teacher and school librarian, as most of you know;
and then since my husband was Governor of Texas and then President of
the United States, I've visited many schools and after-school programs
around our country that help children who might be at greater risk for
getting in trouble. These programs are changing young people's lives
for the better, and children and parents across our country need to
know what they can do to get help.
Some trends among youth are heading in the right direction, but
others are not. Risky behaviors, including drug, alcohol, tobacco use,
violence and early sexual activity are still among the top causes for
disease and early death among young people. In addition, more children
are growing up without an involved, committed and responsible father in
their lives. And studies show that an overwhelming number -- and I
think this is very interesting -- of violent criminals in the United
States are males who grew up without a father.
Helping America's Youth will benefit children and teenagers by
emphasizing action in three key areas: family, school and community.
The initiative highlights the importance in every child's life of a
loving, caring adult, whether that's a parent, a grandparent, a
teacher, a coach, a pastor or a mentor. In addition to emphasizing
community involvement, Helping America's Youth is an umbrella
initiative that utilizes several federal programs that already exist or
that are new programs proposed in the President's budget.
This fall, we'll convene a White House summit on Helping America's
Youth. Researchers, policy experts, educators, parents and community
leaders will discuss the best ways to help our children avoid risky
behaviors so they can build successful lives. Researchers will
identify the causes of problems and suggest the best practices to
overcome them. Community groups, including faith-based groups and
groups like Rosalie Manor, will tell us what's actually working in the
The conference will introduce a new assessment tool that will allow
communities across the country to identify the challenges that they
face and the services that they already have that help young people,
and then where are the gaps. Local leaders can then build off existing
government programs, as well as volunteer faith-based or community
programs to create seamless efforts to help their local children.
Over the past month, I've visited several cities across America
where innovative programs to help children are being put into action.
In Baltimore, researchers found that young children need to be taught
how to behave in school, that it doesn't just come naturally. So
teachers and principals are teaching 1st graders how to be good
students through the Good Behavior Game. Twenty years of data show
that 86 percent of the children who were taught with the Good Behavior
Game in the 1st grade ended up graduating from high school, compared to
just 19 percent of their peers, who were not in a well-managed 1st
Then I visited a great program in Detroit called Think Detroit that
teaches children life lessons through sports. Today in Detroit, more
than 650 coaches volunteer their time to mentor thousands of young
people across the city, teaching them good character traits while they
teach them sports.
And in northwest Pennsylvania -- Philadelphia -- I visited a Boys
and Girls Club that has a Passport to Manhood program. Statistics show
that boys are having an especially tough time growing up. They're more
likely to fall behind girls in school, and more likely to drop out, to
join a gang, commit crimes, wind up in prison, and, in fact, there --
fewer men than women are going to college and graduating from college
now in the United States.
In the Passport to Manhood program, boys age 8 to 16 meet with a
group leader, a lot like the group leaders Mikal and Janeen that I met
today, to talk about the character traits that they want to have, and
the character traits that they think make men, and then how they can
get these character traits themselves. These young men see an ideal of
manhood that respects life and women, and rejects violence.
The programs in Baltimore and Detroit and Philadelphia and here in
Milwaukee are successful because adults are using games or sports, and
mainly communication, to give young people positive messages about
education and character.
These adults serve as a counterbalance to negative peer pressure.
They serve as a safe harbor in a place of violence. And they serve as
an inspiration toward working toward goals like graduating from high
school and enrolling in college.
Research shows that the more children hear positive messages from
adults, the less likely they are to engage in risky behaviors. Parents
and family are the first and most important influence in a child's
life, but we all know that there's no direction book that comes with a
baby. Plenty of parents need help, and organizations like Rosalie
Manor are providing it. Rosalie helps first-time parents of any age,
with a particular focus on teen parents, because teenagers face major
challenges staying involved with their children's lives. They often
struggle with school and finding a job to support their child. And
many teen parents find it difficult to maintain a relationship with
Research tells us that children need two parents in their lives.
On average, children raised in households with two parents perform
better in school and have fewer emotional health and behavioral
problems. Children who grow up without a responsible and loving father
in their lives are more likely to engage in high-risk behaviors, more
likely to drop out of school, and more likely to commit crimes. In
fact, studies show that each year spent without a dad increase a
child's odds of future incarceration by 5 percent. Fatherless boys are
also more likely to become teen parents themselves. That creates a
cycle of teen parenting and absentee fatherhood that's hard to break.
And what I saw today are these young men who are determined to break
that cycle, and I want to congratulate them and tell them that they are
an inspiration to all of us. The consequences for individual children,
and for the communities in which they grow up, can be severe.
Some of the young men who come to Rosalie know what it's like to
grow up without a father at home, and they don't want their own
children to suffer the same loss. I met Jason at our roundtable
discussion earlier today. Jason joined Today's Dads program when he
was 16. Without a dad in his own life, he had started making some bad
decisions. He got involved with drugs, and wound up dropping out of
school. When his girlfriend became pregnant, a friend of Jason's
mother referred him to the program. His case manager, Alphonso, that
you've already heard about today, says that Jason has shown great
growth over the last two years. Jason has been working to support his
son, and he's back in school to complete his GED. He's involved in his
son's life, and he's maintained a strong relationship with his son's
mother. Right now, he's working on finding safe housing for his
Two proposed federal programs to help fathers and strengthen
marriages are part of Helping America's Youth. The Responsible
Fatherhood Initiative would support community- and faith-based
organizations that provide education training and other services to
help men become involved, committed and responsible fathers, both
emotionally and financially. And the Healthy Marriage Initiative would
support research into the best ways to keep marriages strong, and would
provide funding to help couples form and sustain good marriages.
Schools are obviously the second major influence in a child's life,
and over the next decade, our nation will need two million new
teachers. And we need to recruit more men and minority teachers, men
who will be good role models for the boys in their classrooms.
New research in education now gives us a better understanding of
how people at different stages in their life -- young children,
teenagers and adults -- respond to different methods of teaching. So
we want to make sure that we can get good programs into our high
schools so that students who have gotten that far and aren't reading on
grade level will be able to catch up.
And communities, of course, are the third major influence in a
child's life. Parents and schools rely on other adults in our
communities to reinforce positive messages and to help children fill
their time with constructive activities. And that's what I saw in the
next group that I visited today here at Rosalie Manor, and that is an
after-school program that helps children during that time of life and
during those times of day to make right choices. The hours between 3
and 6 p.m. are the hours when there are more than 14 million school-age
children at home taking care of themselves, and after-school programs
like Rosalie's can help those children. And those hours between 3 and
6 are the peak times for juvenile crime. So the after-school
curriculum that's developed and used here is a program that can be
The success of Helping America's Youth depends on organizations
like Rosalie Manor. It depends on the individual commitment of every
American. The time between childhood and adulthood is too short, as
George and I can attest, and every moment in a child's life is
After my visit to Think Detroit, the coaches program, a newspaper
reporter asked one of the little boys I met what he thought about my
visit. And I was moved when I read in the newspaper story that the
little boy simply said, "I wish she could stay here."
Children want us in their lives, and they need us in their lives.
And as I've learned from the remarkable men and women like Alphonso
that I've met today, each of us has the power to make the difference in
the life of a child.
Thank you all very much. Thank you for your efforts to help
America's youth, and thanks for being here today. (Applause.)
END 1:30 P.M. CST